Barnidge: Ghosts, goblins and things that go bump in the night

Say hello to another Halloween, a day famous for ghosts, goblins and things that go bump in the night. That makes it pretty much like any other day for Phyllis King and Loyd Auerbach.

King, a psychic who lives in San Ramon, discovered her portal to the afterlife more than three decades ago when a deceased teenage acquaintance made a startling appearance in her room. She since has helped dozens of clients communicate with dead friends and relatives.

Auerbach, a parapsychologist who lives in Martinez and teaches at HCH Institute in Lafayette, is a specialist in paranormal investigations. He's studied more than 1,000 apparitions, hauntings and poltergeists in a career spanning more than 30 years.

Neither attaches any mysticism to Oct. 31, but the occasion does provide a dandy excuse to explore a world they have embraced and most of us prefer to ignore.

Paranormal experiences run the gamut, Auerbach said, from the explainable to the otherworldly. He cites as an example of the former his first investigation, in 1979, when a Petaluma woman reported seeing household objects moving, windows opening and closing and a ghost clad in black armor.

"There were no ghosts," he concluded after extensive study. "What the woman was seeing was an unconsciously created image of physical stuff happening. It was my first poltergeist case, caused by her unconscious ability to do mind-over-matter tantrums."

A less explainable phenomenon came years later in Livermore, where four family members saw a female ghost move about their house but never discussed it among themselves until a 12-year-old in the family volunteered that he knew everyone was seeing a ghost.

"His mother asked, 'How do you know that?'" Auerbach said. "He said, 'The ghost told me.'"

When asked about the spirit who had talked to him, the boy shared details of the ghost's long-ago life, which he had no way of knowing but were later confirmed by her surviving relative.

Both Auerbach and King say spirits sometimes simply "hang around" a location for reasons unknown. King experienced such a presence in the company of six psychics during a convention in Long Beach. In a stateroom aboard the Queen Mary where cigar-puffing Winston Churchill was known to have stayed, they all heard indistinguishable chatter, on and off, accompanied by the smell of cigar smoke.

King reaches out to the dead only at the request of clients. She can sense a spirit's willingness to be contacted by a change in the "texture" of the energy or by a sudden chill that makes her "goosebumpy." Her clients mostly are women. Men tend to be disbelievers.

Auerbach, who said hauntings can involve people who are still alive, recalled one in Westchester County, just north of New York City. A couple who'd lived in their house for only a few months reported hearing noisy groaning and moaning that sounded like amorous activity in the next bedroom at 3 a.m. nearly every night.

Auerbach discovered that years before, when windows were left open on spring and fall nights, the young couple who previously owned the house often had awakened the next-door neighbors with their enthusiastic cavorting in the wee hours.

"Somehow," said Auerbach, "that young couple had left a real significant, positive imprint on that location."

It seems not every bump in the night has to be something bad.

Contact Tom Barnidge at tbarnidge@bayareanewsgroup.com.

Can Ghosts or Spirits Hurt You?

Some groups are adamant that you can never be hurt from paranormal entities. I disagree with the statement. In this field, one cannot make blanket statements. There’s always a gray area, and all possibilities exist. Sadly, we have dealt with people who have indeed been impacted by paranormal entities. But I must be honest, it is rare.

• Ghosts

Now, I can make a statement here. “Ghosts will never, ever hurt you.” I stand 100% by this statement because we recognize the word “ghost” as being a residual energy – one without thought, without awareness of the living or its surroundings, and without any ability to interact with the living. Since residual energy cannot interact with the living, they cannot directly injure a living person.
Now that does not mean a ghost (as we use the word) cannot indirectly cause harm. Say you see a residual haunting that is traumatic; you may attempt to flee and injure yourself on the account of being hysterical. You can stub your toe all the way to falling down a flight of stairs – there physical injury can occur – but it was not the ghost itself.One thing to think about is the emotional aspect of a residual haunting. If you happen to see a traumatic residual haunting, that may impact your emotional health. Is that directly from the residual energy, no, but it is an indirect result of the image or sound that you hear.

• Spirits

Yes, they can hurt you both emotionally and physically. It is rare, but it can happen. Sometimes their harm is unintentional as a result of a frenzied state. Sometimes spirits may not realize that what they did impacted a living person. I don’t want to alarm anyone – I want to be clear, it does happen, but it is not common.

Some people can feel that they are pushed, tripped, scratched, burned, or objects seemingly thrown at them. But with anything paranormal, one must rule out other possibilities before thinking of the paranormal. Most feelings of being pushed or tripped are actually crooked floors or stairs that are not level, or consistent in their rise or width. Many scratches at night are caused by us, not a paranormal entity.
There are malevolent spirits that are around that can cause both physical and emotional harm. A malevolent spirit is a spirit of a human who died that was perhaps a bit too angry or criminal in their lives. Since spirits maintain their personality when they were alive, there are spirits who intentionally cause harm to others out of revenge or their pleasure. We have worked with people who have had traumatic experiences with malevolent spirits who caused them great harm both emotionally and physically. We have dealt with several people who feel that they are getting choked, with witnesses actually seeing their necks constricting or hand-marks after the fact.As for the unintentional sometimes their actions can cause scratches if they are distraught enough or throw a bit of a tantrum. Some cases their intent to “push” to gain attention was a bit too hard or happened when someone was not braced for it – how does one brace for an invisible push?

• Demons

Most definitely yes – physically and psychologically. They want to destroy lives and as such they can cause significant psychological damage first and foremost and move on to physical attacks. Demons are very dangerous and should be avoided at all costs.

• Angels

Never.

• Poltergeists

Usually injuries are limited to the focus of the poltergeist activity. Psychologically, the focus already has emotional problems that cause the activity to begin. But physically speaking, some level of injury can occur in some genuine poltergeist activity.

What to do if you are Concerned?

Fear is never a good thing when it comes to the paranormal as it does not accomplish much. In the case of malevolent spirits and demons, they relish fear and they want more. So the key is to remain positive and have faith that you are protected by God (whatever faith you subscribe to), the Angels, Guardian angels, and even familiar helpful spirits (loved ones). One small exercise you can do for protection is called the Universal Light Prayer. When you recite the prayer below, envision a bright white light coming down and protecting you, your loved ones, and your home. Visualize this light pushing away any negative forces and acting as a barrier where nothing can penetrate to harm you or your family.

“I am surrounded by pure white light.Nothing but good can come to me.Nothing but good can go from me.I give thanks.I give thanks.I give thanks.”

As long as you have faith in it, it will work. This is called psychic protection.
If you are religious….pray! Pray to God, the angels, your guardian angels. They are there to help – all you need to do is….ASK! Saint Michael is a powerful ally and we have some spine-tingling experiences when we invoked his help. Due to our strict privacy guidelines, we cannot give examples, but we can still be speechless over the power of prayer – it is truly inspirational.

Conclusion

So, while harm can happen, it is rare, and most of the harm comes from our recklessness in fleeing or from our own feelings when we experience what we think is paranormal. Bottom line – we cannot say that harm will not happen – that is just not true. But we will say that it is unlikely. One thing we preach is to trust your instinct – it is an amazing defence mechanism. Like the old saying goes … it is better to be safe than sorry.

GHOSTS & SPIRITS

The belief in the existence of ghostly manifestations of the dead is culturally universal. Although a culture’s belief system may differ on whether said ghosts are typically malevolent or benign, the consensus is that they are the soul of a person once living. These manifestations will appear as an exact reproduction of physical features as well as clothing, and can be depicted as such in artwork from the Egyptian Book of the Dead.

Many cultures celebrate rites to appease ghosts in the form of ancestral veneration. The Chinese Ghost Festival, and the European traditions of All Souls Day to name a few- all cater to, and offer food to restless ghosts who may be lurking about. Mexico’s Dia de los Muertos as well as the Bon Festival in Japan are geared more to ancestral worship- inviting the spirits of ones ancestors to temporarily partake in food and entertainment.

The differences between these two entities however (Ghosts and Spirits) could not be more diverse.

GHOSTS

“Everyone lives the life of their choosing.
Not just what they chose, but what they're choosing.”


Ghosts have traditionally been seen as spirits looking for revenge, or people who have died a violent or gruesome death. Although this may be true in some cases, the true description of a ghost is someone who has decided, for whatever reason, to stay behind and not go to where they are supposed to. Most do so out of choice, although some individuals may not realize that they have actually died. Ghosts can be conscious or unconscious.

It is interesting to note that ghosts are people who are allowed free will following their death. This is hard for many people to accept and understand. This cannot truly be classified as “purgatory” in all cases, as many ghosts are apparently very happy to be where they are. We have received EVP voices that have told us, “We can go at anytime,” as well as hinting that they could even tell us how they died. It is true, however, that most if not all ghosts have some type of unfinished business that they use as an excuse to keep themselves here. Whether they feel that they died too soon, or are holding on to the belief that something needs to change before they can move on, their personal views and emotional needs take precedence regardless of whether they are still in their physical bodies.

It should also be taken into account that ghosts are more attracted to locations rather than to people. This has been incorrectly stated on certain paranormal television shows that, “ghosts follow people.” While it is true that in extremely rare cases ghosts can apparently follow the living, our research has shown completely the opposite. This means that a ghost may have been given the free will to stay here, but they do so with limitations. A ghost’s range of travel is not infinite- they are bound by the restrictions of a location. They cannot bi-locate (appear in different places at the same time) as Spirits do. The bottom line is that it doesn’t matter what type of structure is built on a location that is haunted, and why even newer homes may harbor some type of deep, dark, spectral secret. For ghosts it’s all about Location, Location, Location.

Because ghosts are more attracted to locations, it should be no surprise that cemeteries are rarely haunted. Since ghosts stay in places that make them comfortable, cemeteries would not be at the top of their list. Ghosts who do stay in cemeteries are either persons who still believe they are protecting something (such as ghosts from the Civil War), or someone who is so completely heartbroken and filled with grief that they have chosen this location to wallow eternally in their own self-pity. Spirits on the other hand DO visit cemeteries, whether they are buried there or not. They may visit the gravesites of their friends and family, or they may be just chillin’ with other Spirits having what we might consider to be a Paranormal Party.

Also, if you see or hear stories about a “man in black” at the cemetery, please be aware that this is the Gatekeeper who is not a ghost at all. The Gatekeeper doesn’t like to be bothered when he’s at a cemetery, so if you do see him, please give him a wide berth (this is more of a friendly warning than a plea for good manners).


RESIDUAL HAUNTINGS

“In many ways, time and space are where the irresponsible learn to become responsible.”

A Residual Haunting is not the same thing as a conscious ghost. What we are witnessing when we see a Residual Haunting is the playback of a moment in time almost like watching a movie. These playbacks are mainly visual, but can also be auditory. They are normally attributed to traumatic, life-altering events. Think of a Residual as a psychic footprint.

Residual Hauntings can occur anytime and anywhere as they are random in nature. Historical places where life and death situations took place are prime spots for Residuals. To name a few:

• Gettysburg and other war-torn locations

• Ghost Ships

• Old Asylums/Sanatoriums

• Prisons

• Hospitals

• Any old structures including residences and businesses.

The living cannot interact with any entities during a Residual playback and vice-versa.

We have had many clients explain the Residual playbacks they have seen and they are extremely fascinating accounts. One of the main components we’ve noticed in all stories is that the playback itself appears to consist of events that transpired before something tragic or violent had taken place.
We have yet to receive word of a Residual where the viewer actually witnessed a murderous or violent act- what was witnessed were the preceding events prior to such acts. Here’s a prime example- the owner of a restaurant that used to be a Speakeasy would see this same Residual over and over again. Two goons are sitting at a table having a heated conversation with an attractive girl in 1920’s flapper attire. The witness could never tell what the argument was about, but knew that the conversation wasn’t going well. When the girl angrily gets up from the table to head up the stairs, the one goon also gets up and follows her. He turns around and looks behind him once, before reaching into his suit coat pocket and bringing out a large knife. He then comes right up behind the girl ready to strike her with the knife, whereas immediately all of the participants fade and disappear. There was no rhyme or reason when this playback would occur, and the original witness and some of her employees claimed to have watched it a number of times. Just like a photograph, a RESIDUAL haunting, saved in time and space by highly-charged emotional distress, will playback itself time and time again.


POLTERGEISTS


“There must be a bug in the system, because according to our records, we’ve never been told exactly how powerful we are.”

The meaning of the word “Poltergeist” (or “noisy, racketing ghost) means something very different to paranormal investigators. The description of a “Poltergeist” is an invisible entity that manifests in an unruly manner by being noisy, or performs the violent manipulation and movement of objects. Families are suddenly terrorized by inexplicable phenomena such as: broken dishes, showers of stones, mysterious fires, objects that levitate than are thrown and broken, or the violent moving of furniture. However, paranormal research has shown that poltergeist activity usually revolves around a pre-teen child or adolescent. We call this person “The Agent.”

Hormonal and emotional changes are rampant during our pre-teen years. This can create hostile and resentful-type energies. In particular individuals, these pent-up energies can explode outward, thus creating a disturbance in the physical environment displayed in the form of a psychokinetic disturbance. This is more common with pre-teen females than males, although either gender can become the ‘Agent.’ Exorcism and/or house blessing is not effective, and can make things worse since an adolescents rage is directed toward authority.

If a client writes to us saying that they have a “Poltergeist” in their home, one of the first questions we would ask them is how many children they have, and what their ages are. It’s no surprise that most people are not thrilled to hear that their teenage son or daughter may be the cause of said activity, as it is a lot easier to blame an outside entity for such odd and sometimes violent occurrences. To pin down the source of the activity, our first recommendation is to note if activity increases around the ‘Agent’. The best way to do this is to document the difference in activity level when the ‘Agent’ is in the house and compare it to when they are gone. In a very high percentage of these cases, when the main source of the psychokinetic energy is gone, the activity completely disappears. This proves that the ‘Agent’ has been the source of the disturbances.

To make matters more confusing, the ‘Agent’ will not even be aware that they are causing the disturbances, and are just as terrified as the rest of the household when turbulence happens. Furthermore, when the ‘Agent’ has a fear of the activity along with the rest of the household, this will only cause the disturbances to become more intense.

Poltergeist activity starts and stops suddenly. It can last anywhere from a few hours, few days, to a few years. Once the determination has been made that it is indeed the ‘Agent’ causing the activity, our recommendation is to help the ‘Agent’ get rid of some of that pent-up energy. Physical exercise during this time is very important, and sports that are geared to improve self-esteem are recommended. Actually, Karate has appeared to be very helpful with these types of individuals. If there has been a major change in the family dynamic of the household such as a divorce or a change in residence/schools, then a more emotional outlet may be needed, such as psychotherapy.

And ladies, please take note that our pre-teen years are not the only time we are blessed with such hormonal changes. When going through changes from PMS, peri-menopause or menopause, these fluctuating energies may again explode outward. Electricity may be affected- especially appliances, light bulbs and even street lights. I tend to blow out a lot of light bulbs and street lamps during certain special times, and you don’t want to get me near any type of electronic equipment or it will cease to function if not completely blow up. Things sometimes fly off of the shelves directly at me during this time too, especially at the supermarket. This activity is annoying and sometimes embarrassing and I am unaware of myself consciously performing such feats, but I’m sensitive to the fact that during these episodes I have temporarily become the ‘Agent.’


SPIRITS



“Would you believe, that here, in the unseen, just a breath away from "there," in time and space, we have gardens with such sweet fragrances they actually caress passersby? That we have melodies so rich you can actually see them dancing through the air? And colors so exquisite they tickle all of your senses?”


Keep in mind that most of us will not become ghosts, as we will go to where we are supposed to. For the sake of simplicity, Todd and I like to separate ghosts from people who have passed over to the Other Side. We simply call them Spirits.

Spirits are people who have gone to where they are supposed to. If your grandfather comes to visit you and tells you that he’s doing fine now and not to worry about him anymore, this is not the Ghost of your grandfather. This is the Spirit of your grandfather. 75% of all bereaved persons have experienced such visitations.

Spirits can and do come back and forth from the Other Side to visit and they will do so intermittently. They may choose a more emotionally removed person to appear to pass on messages. If your mother died and the two of you were very close, you may still be grieving for her years following her passing. She knows that appearing to you may impede your bereavement and this is something she wouldn’t do. Bereavement is a training process so to speak, and is something very personal that we all much face and learn how to deal with. So to let the family know that she’s okay, she may appear in a dream or even in person to someone more removed such as your spouse (which my father actually did) or a niece, or even one of your friends. Or they may not appear to anyone at all. You cannot force an issue such as this- Spirits choose if and when they will appear. It’s not like we can download an App on our iSpirits and pick and choose who we want to talk to over there. And to be frank, Spirits have a lot of things to do where they are and they do get busy. More often than not, if they do visit us they tend to leave signs more than making appearances, especially when they’ve been gone for quite some time.

On the night that my father died, Todd and I drove to Salem to be with my mother and wait for the funeral home to arrive. He had died peacefully in his rocking chair, holding a bottle of water and watching “Three’s Company,” his favorite television show. I took a walk back to my father’s bedroom and noticed that there were three Funeral Cards laid out on his pillow. One was for his mother, the other his father, and the third one his brother. I brought them out and showed them to my mother and to Todd. My father had suffered from slight dementia for a number of years, and my mother said she had no idea where he had been keeping those. And how odd that they were out laying on his pillow? I am still curious on whether my father did that before or after his passing to let us know that these were the people that came to get him as well as his way of saying goodbye. Personally, I think it was afterwards.

Spirits can announce themselves with signs and they like to do this quite often. If your grandmother baked the best cookies you’ve ever had, the scent of those cookies may waft by when she is visiting you. Your father’s pipe smoke may linger in the air when he’s checking in with you. Perfume is another favorite. Another choice are items that were very personal to them such as flowers or favorite types of animals (butterflies, birds, cats, etc).

Spirits can manipulate many things in our physical environment to announce their presence, very much like ghosts can. Sometimes it may be hard to tell the difference. Spirits can affect anything electrical such as lighting, appliances, televisions, computers, and even phones! I would tell the story about the phone call I received at 2:30 in the morning from my deceased father about 4 months after his death, but I think I’ve made it pretty clear already that he’s fairly active and visits us often (and I admit that the phone call slightly terrified me at the time, which is why he most certainly hasn’t done that again). My dad has an affinity for my kitchen and this is usually where he pops in. This is not surprising- the man loved food.

Spirits can pick up and move physical items, and even bring you little presents. My father appeared to me in a dream about 8 months after his passing and in this dream I asked him to leave me a sign when he’s around. He said he’d drop pennies for me to find and that is how I would know. So whenever I find a penny, I thank him.

Todd has a friend from his high school days who was killed in a car crash. When Ronnie started visiting us, he used to leave chewed up gum on my kitchen counters until I told him to knock it off. That’s nasty. Now he leaves whole sticks of gum or empty gum wrappers when he pops in for a visit, which is perfectly fine. An odd little present to leave for us it’s true, but certainly one that we can attribute to him specifically. You may be receiving signs and not even be aware of them, or they may be so blatant that there is no other explanation for them. Regardless, it does us all good to take the time and pay attention.

Animals and very young children will see visiting Spirits because nobody has told them that they don’t exist. This is why babies look over your shoulder and giggle. Dogs and cats will sometimes run and play and talk to someone who you cannot see. These are people that they may have known and remembered. Even if they never met them while the person was alive, they know that this visitor is someone they can trust. Many if not most young children before the age of five will see Spirits and may tell you about it. Stories have been recounted to me time and again of 2 and 3 year olds telling mom and dad about how “Nana” was in their room last night to sing them a lullaby or “Gramps” was sitting at the foot of their bed and had brought them a baseball. This happens all the time and should not be viewed as anything paranormal, but a normal occurrence. What could be more normal than our friends and relatives visiting us?

Unfortunately the closest the living have to visiting those who have passed on is a visit to the cemetery. Our earthbound, physical bodies do not allow us traveling allowances to and from the Other Side. Many people ask me if Spirits hear us when we speak to them. You can be assured that they do. Even your beloved pets who have passed over hear you when you speak to them. Spirits hear everything, they watch everything, and they know everything. They know what’s in your heart and what you are thinking. Ghosts on the other hand are still earthbound, so ESP is not something they are blessed with. They may be able to manipulate the physical environment better than they used to, but they cannot read your mind. Only those who have passed over correctly gain all of this knowledge. Ghosts also have no boundaries and no understanding of when they have crossed the line. Spirits have infinite knowledge of this, and one of their main concerns is not to upset you. You may beg them to come and visit you, but they will know whether you are truly ready for this or not. And if you are not ready, they will not come regardless of whether you think you are.

American society as a rule tends to be very prudish when discussing death and the afterlife which I find slightly humorous based on the huge spiritual/medium movements that were so popular during the Victorian era. I find the current way we view death as a society severely lacking if not bordering on stuffy. Why we promote such a phobia of death in this society is beyond me.

Personally, I wish there were people at every hospital whose main purpose is to counsel patients who have had NDE’s (Near Death Experiences) or to simply offer guidance to someone who is getting ready for their transition from life into death. Instead, doctors and nurses are taught not to “speak of such things” when people getting ready to die say aloud what relatives are in the room with them, or when someone is brought back to life after being flat lined- recounting what they saw with infinite detail.

I spoke to many patients when I volunteered at a Hospice who would whisper to me that they wouldn’t be there the next day, and they were always right. Some of them even pointed to the corners of the room, smiling, and when I asked them if there was someone special here to see them they would answer with a definitive yes. These deathbed visitations from Spirits would normally transpire up to a week before a person would ultimately pass, but it could be quicker. I think it all depended on the person who was dying and if they were ready to go once the visitations began. Also, it should be noted that sober family members and friends of the patient, as well as Hospice employees and volunteers (myself included) have witnessed such phenomenon. In my opinion, deathbed visitations should be regarded as the highest evidence of the afterlife that we have, and are not just a by-product of an individual’s dying brain.

Most other cultures do not have such morbidity to death as we do here in the Americas, as is seen by such celebratory forms of ancestral worship in China, Japan,Mexico, and parts of Italy where they actually invite their ancestors back year after year to partake of food and enjoy entertainment provided for them. These cultures have an understanding that death is just a process of life, and a journey that each of us will have to experience. This very healthy and accommodating way of dealing with death goes as far back as the Egyptians as well as the ancient Greeks, who put coins on the eyes of the dead so the deceased could pay the ferryman to take them into the Underworld. In most other cultures, special arrangements are made to help the deceased transition from this world into the next, and these arrangements do not stop once the individual has been laid to rest. InAmerica, we have neglected such a concept. Dead and buried, we say.

Additionally, there are some persons in our society who seem to have no problem desecrating cemeteries and vandalizing tombstones- something other cultures if not most of us, find abhorrent. This is a pointless act of violence against our own ancestors and I deem it one of the lowest of the low. Endless Spirits have come up to me in cemeteries expressing their concern over a relative’s broken gravestone, or the remains of party trash laid about the cemetery grounds. This is something that they just can’t understand, and I cannot disagree with their complaints. So, if you’ve done anything like this, just know that the dead know all about it and they’re keeping an eye on you. Spirits rarely get angry, but this type of action does seem to upset them.

As a footnote, Spirits love celebrations. Marriages, holiday celebrations, births, even their own funerals and Celebrations of Life in their honor. Spirits are silent witnesses to all of our festivities and special moments in life- both the grim as well as the gleeful.

Pacific Paranormal Research Society

http://nwpprs.com/Ghosts___Spirits.html

Accounts Of The Mysterious & The Paranormal

Lionel Fanthorpe shared updates, and accounts of the mysterious and the paranormal. Fanthorpe detailed several theories that may help explain psychic experiences, including traditional ghosts, time slips, parallel universes, extraterrestrials, natural recordings and mental phenomena. "Those six categories could embrace every report of everything paranormal that has ever been put in the archives," he said. Fanthorpe suggested that parallel universes could be the source of doppelgängers and recounted a story about a 19th century school mistress who watched from a window as her other self strolled through a garden. He also reported on a plumber who witnessed time-shifted Roman soldiers marching through a cellar as well as an electrician whose vehicle shut off as he neared a field where a large silver UFO had apparently landed. The plumber hid in a ditch as unusual-looking beings examined the vehicle before returning to their ship and taking off, he noted.

Fanthorpe related some of his favorite stories throughout the night. One such account took place in 1795 and involved three teenagers that happened upon an amazing find on Oak Island, a small island off the coast of Nova scotia. The lads discovered a ship's block and tackle hanging from the branch of a tree beneath which was a shaft that had been dug and refilled, he explained. Digging revealed a platform of logs every ten feet and flood tunnels that appeared to have been put in place to protect something, Fanthorpe continued. The purpose of the shaft and why it was built remain unsolved to this day but it may have been constructed by the Templars, he added. Fanthorpe also discussed the intriguing tale of Spring-heeled Jack, a Victorian figure known for his frightening leaps, as well as the story of a young man who in 1924 found ancient artifacts, including stone tools and tablets with an unknown alphabet, in a hole on his grandfather's farm in France.


Biography:
Lionel Fanthorpe was born in England and has worked as a journalist and teacher. He is currently Director of Media Studies at Cardiff Academy and is a fully ordained Anglican Priest working part-time and unpaid for the Church in Wales. Lionel is President of ASSAP (The Association for the Scientific Study of Anomalous Phenomena) and is also the President of BUFORA (the British UFO Research Association). He's now a popular TV and Radio presenter and celebrity guest on chat shows. Lionel is also the author of over 250 books.



Lionel Fanthorpe Amazon Books & Kindle Downloads

Ghosts and Spirits – The Untold Facts!

The subject of ghosts and evil spirits intrigues almost everyone. The web is full of theories and stories about beings from the other world that tend to spark fear in the believers. In this space, the Indian Paranormal Society, debunks some myths and highlights some lesser known facts to help you get familiar with the unknown!

Emotional Vampires: 

Have you ever met anyone who was so negative about everything at work or life that they drained your energies or left you emotionally drained, when you were around them?

These people are called Emotional or Psychic Vampires who are so badly enveloped in their own woes that they have no clue of the negative effect they have on people around them.

The draining effect these people have on others is similar to the psychic attacks done by demonic spirits. If your own stress or negativity can drain you emotionally, then you are your own Emotional Vampire.

Hemography

There have been many instances where people have reported some words, blood stains, hand and foot prints appearing on random things such as wall, clothes, paper, fabric, etc without any human involvement. This particular type of phenomena is called Hemography.

Do you smell something that is not present physically?

Phantosmia is a form of olfactory hallucination. This word was taken from the Greek Phanto meaning Phantom and Osmia meaning smell.

Can evil spirits attack or harm you?

It is true that some people have been attacked by malevolent spirits. It is usually due to the person being afraid of what the spirit can do to him or her. Attacks happen when the evil spirit believes that it can overpower or bully a person.

These attacks are not dangerous and involve hair being pulled, push, pull or a shove. Some reports involve burning sensation, bruising or minor scratching. Yet other reports include larger items being thrown or even the person being thrown away. Even though there are hundreds of stories about it, there is no prominent proof that a spirit can seriously harm a person physically.

Spirits are largely impotent when it comes to physical ability. The biggest threat is a psychic attack which can manifest as feeling claustrophobic, fear, anxiety etc.

Evil spirits are bullies who use psychic attacks as an attempt by a malevolent person to possess a weak-hearted person. 

Facts:

• The word haunts implies visiting a place frequently. It is not related to spirits only.• Spirits are consciousness of living beings that survive physical death. • Spirits wants attention from living people. They manifest themselves in order to get attention. They necessarily don’t want to harm people.• Paranormal activity is independent of time. It will occur at any time of the day.• Sound of footsteps, smell (rose, sandalwood, pungent and rotten eggs) and knocks at the door are the most common symptoms of a haunted place.• A place can be haunted by spirits for 100 years without anyone getting even a hint about it.• Evil spirits are bullies. They fear from people who stand for themselves.

Myths: 

• Ghosts can kill humans. • Ghosts have twisted legs.• Ghosts wear white clothes.• Ghosts can enter into someone’s body and control the mind.• Spirits bring misfortune and cause loss of wealth.• Djinns can overpower people. They are powerful only because we empower them with our belief system)• Spirits are responsible for someone’s ill health and mental state.• Spirits can be captured in a bottle.• All spirits are evil.

"If you want to learn about spirits’ behaviour, look into your eyes and ask yourself, how would you behave when you are stuck emotionally and mentally in a place without a physical body." 

–  Reverend Gaurav Tiwari

Information courtesy: IndianParanormalSociety.com